The best lesson my SugaDaddy taught me.

Thanks to everyone who wrote in last week!  ​ It is so awesome to hear about all of your successes and struggles with Sugar Daddy dating. It can be an emotional roller coaster at times but it is worth it, particularly when you find a long term SD. ​ My Mom always encouraged me to be persistent, and that has been my key to success in the sugar world. Persistence takes time though, and I know... you want your rich SD now! ​ So let's talk about what you can do now! I want to help the girls that are wondering, "Where is my first reply?" ​ First up, as I mentioned last week, don’t get attached to one guy. Message as many men as you can find - even if you write the same introduction to each of them. Playing the numbers will dramatically increase your chances. Even if he lives a little further away than you'd like, he is probably going to respond if he likes what you have to say, and responds to your profile photo. ​ Which brings me back to your photos: Put your best foot (face?) forward.  Make sure each photo of yourself is a clear shot, with preferably no other people in it. Most importantly, get your photos verified. It only takes a minute to verify... and guys will definitely notice! You will get moved to the top of the search results, too which means guys will see your face before the faces of your competition (which is what we all want right?). ​ Filling in your empty profile fields and/or embellishing your bio will also help big time as well. I see many girls who leave their profile fairly blank. Even if they have a good photo, it can make SD’s question just how real they are if they don't have profile content that actually, you know... says something specific about themselves. With a complete profile, you will attract more attention, and experience more success. ​ I’m not drop-dead gorgeous.  In most ways, I'm just a regular girl, but I use my whole profile to pull the SD’s in: The photo, the verification, and the text. SD’s are really just looking to get a sense of your personality, your wants, and of course, whether or not you are "the real deal." If your profile removes his doubts in all three areas, it will be impossible to resist. ​ The biggest lesson came from my recent experience with an SB named Tony.  Tony was the perfect SD - handsome and generous in equal measure. I would not have ended up sitting across from him, sharing a fantastic meal, if it wasn't for what I learned chasing him... I messaged him as soon as I saw his profile, but there was no reply.  A couple of days passed and still, I got nothing back. In real life, I would probably never make the effort to contact a guy twice, but in the sugar space, you have to try all of the angles. ​ Maybe Tony had computer problems, I thought.  Maybe the website didn’t notify him, maybe Tony got a lot of messages and mine got buried? With SD’s you have a lot to gain and often nothing to lose. I decided to message him again. This time, instead of just saying hi, I asked him a bit about himself. Two days passed, and just when I started to think that I’d blown it, one night I received a message from Tony thanking me for reaching out again. He had missed my first messages accidentally, and was very eager to chat. ​ I’m rambling again! I will finish up now, I can tell you more about Tony and our shopping adventures another time. ​ Don’t wait, your SD is waiting for you and there are thousands of new SD’s joining every week. Lots of Love, K.G.M.